Here's a Joke that I can't share, but I will, and the reason why...

First the joke:

Great joke for when you’re asking for a raise:
Sam walks into his boss’s office and says:
“Sir, I’ll be straight with you, I know the economy isn’t great, but I have three companies after me, and I would like to respectfully ask for a raise.”
After a few minutes of haggling the boss finally agrees to a 5 percent raise, and Sam happily gets up to leave.
“By the way,” asks the boss as Sam is getting up, “which three companies are after you?”
“The electric company, water company, and phone company,” Sam replied.

OK, now the reason why I can laugh at this but really shouldn't and I shouldn't share it is because we get what we say. Also we "get" whatever comes out of our mouth; whether we say it, sing it, shout it or however these words come from our mouth, our subconscious hears it, the universe hears it and guess what. That is exactly what one gets. 

But I am sharing this today as a "lesson" for all of us. We always hear things around us such as jokes and I'm not talking about the obvious "off-colored" jokes but "general" jokes and "general" conversation. 

So after we've had a laugh with this joke, let's both say: "Cancel, cancel" and now let's look at what is "wrong" with this picture. 

The punch line is "I have three companies after me". The boss thinks the man has job offers but the truth (and get that, the "truth" was) that these were bill collectors. So this person was "dishonest" with his boss and when he says that the electric, water and phone company are after him, he is confessing this; and what you confess you get more of! 

"... the economy isn't great". Our ears hear that and believe it. I say "make your own economy". 

So I guess the moral of my little message here is that we need to be careful about what we laugh at. You may think that this is nitpicking but I will tell you that your subconscious is equally nitpicking. 

Free Year at a Glance BE DO HAVE Calendar.

I have a free gift for my readers. The holiday season is in full swing as I write this. Soon, it will be January one and most of us will have the urge to create goals and make at least some effort to attain them. Well, I want you to create goals that you truly desire and indeed attain them.

I present to you the "Be Do Have Calendar". This is the start of a complete program that I will soon offer but for now, you have the basis of the system. It's a year at a glance calendar that you can use to refer to often for your 90 day, 6 month or 12 months goals.

You may know that before you can "have" anything, you must "do" something and to "do" something you must "be" something; so the order is: Be, Do, and Have, but you need to first list things and think things in reverse (Have, Do, Be) , and then go forward (Be, Do, and Have) to attain. As I said, I'll cover more of this in the "system" later when I'm done creating it. I was so excited that I wanted to share this with you so you could start using it and share your feedback in the comments below.

Here's how it works, briefly.

There is a Year-at-a-Glance calendar on the right side and space on the left side for you to write.

Give some time to what it is that you want to have and then list it. If you have several things you'd like to have, try to keep it to a maximum of three things. (You may want to check the list of the "Major 8" listed at the top of this blog as what you want might be a better relationship, more respect or money).Be as specific as you can when listing your want.

Next, list what you will need to do to "have" these things or to have them realized.  Again, be as specific as possible.

Finally, what do you need to be to "do" and "have" this all come about.

Here's a very quick and simple illustration.

You desire a new or better car. This is your "have"; list it.
To realize this your know you need to get another or better paying job. This is your "do"; list this (or several things).
To work more hours you really need to have the desire to work more and longer hours, you need to eat better to have the energy, you need to sleep more and lower your stress level, you need to believe in yourself. These are the things you need to "be"; list these things.

This is a very simple illustration and you can use this for anything that you want to attain. If you'd like, circle a date on the calendar as your deadline. You can use the grey 3 sided border to trim the BE DO HAVE CALENDAR to fit into an 8 x 10 frame. Download this free at:

Look at this as often as possible during the day to attain your "have".

Try this, it works! Then leave your comments below as to how this helped you. Be watching for the full blown version coming out soon. (If you've not registered to "follow by email" on this page you may consider doing so to not miss out on these articles). I will also be setting up a type of "think tank" or "advisory board" of members who I will run different ideas by before releasing them, plus there will be other perks, etc. Be watching for that announcement too.

Get your free BE DO HAVE Calendar by clicking here! 

Finally, NAME YOUR PRICE Attainment Coaching!

Hello, I don't have time here to tell you about this; but it's brand new and I want you to see it!

Just click the image to visit the page. Then please come back here and let me know what you think in the comments section!

Thanks. Ter

What would you do with $3,850?

How many times have you passed the lottery billboard that asks, "What's Your Dream"? 
Have you ever calculated how you would "use" the 180 Million Dollars you'd win? (Or whatever the figure is on the board that day?) One reason why someone doesn't have money come to them is because they are not "ready" for it. If that someone were to win the $180 Million Dollars it would soon vanish because they did not have a "need" for it. Does this make sense to you? 

Secondly, some people do not respond to an opportunity when they see one. It's too good to be true and guess what, then it isn't; at least it isn't for them! 

Take a moment now and write down the figure: $3,850. Pretend for a time that figure is what is in your checking account. Now list the bills you'd pay off, the money you'd set aside for the vacation, the gifts you want to give, etc. In my seminars I ask people to do this with $100,000 but here I want you to imagine you have $3,850 dollars that is all yours and that it comes to you every three months.... how would that change your lifestyle? 

It definitely is real, and attainable. If interested to find out more, click on the picture above. You'll be taken to my web page that shows you more information. Don't worry, if you are interested you can't get in; at least immediately. There is a waiting list as I can only work with a few people at a time. But I encourage you to get the details and get on the list!